tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6912321843321447366.post3248506142523886445..comments2023-11-21T13:12:09.387-05:00Comments on Rattling the Bones: Inter-Relations: Teachings from the Golden WorkshopLisa F. Tardiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11417343793276016602noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6912321843321447366.post-20346127854837952522011-07-25T21:10:46.365-04:002011-07-25T21:10:46.365-04:00Michelle,
I love some of the comments you've ...Michelle,<br /><br />I love some of the comments you've made -- especially the one about creating abundance by working together. <br /><br />Keep up on the journey.<br />The greatest relationship you'll ever experience is the one you create with your own personal wheel.<br /><br />Tahau!<br />LISALisa F. Tardiffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11417343793276016602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6912321843321447366.post-26964069157619124342011-07-25T15:35:46.033-04:002011-07-25T15:35:46.033-04:00I think what Golden taught me most was I learned t...I think what Golden taught me most was I learned that this path has to be explored individually and worked on personal levels before you grow and share the learning from it, C and I each had our own experience but then we also experienced it as a couple. I learned to see myself, which to be honest I didnt know really who I am/was, I am still learning....I know I am a Wife, Mom, Friend but those are roles.<br />Really knowing who we are is the journey. <br />I can see how at times I have put my needs, wants aside to follow or comply or out of fear not followed things through....Definitely had me thinking about why I thought I had to do everything with C. He even made some big choices for his path that at first I was in reaction to but now I see a different prespective and am glad for him and support his decisions 100%. I appreciate that I have my own path that interconnects with C but is side by side supportive and strengthening. <br />Three years going to the River and this time making it accross was a journey in its self and showed me how when you work on yourself anything is possible and when you get a lot of people working the same way WOW thats ABUNDANCE!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16822760763130807297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6912321843321447366.post-75318699526886975162011-07-22T15:10:00.757-04:002011-07-22T15:10:00.757-04:00So glad Golden was good! I can't imagine cros...So glad Golden was good! I can't imagine crossing a river like that. All the rivers I can think of are either big or little! *laugh* I love synchronicity...Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02335627965504673440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6912321843321447366.post-75740035293823631592011-07-21T22:29:15.577-04:002011-07-21T22:29:15.577-04:00Thanks! Lisa Sweet DreamsThanks! Lisa Sweet DreamsWampumBlueRavenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05953087004284515987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6912321843321447366.post-53075851058325127952011-07-21T20:19:58.358-04:002011-07-21T20:19:58.358-04:00Nathalie,
NO! I do not consider what I do THERAPY...Nathalie,<br /><br />NO! I do not consider what I do THERAPY.<br /><br />I don't have anything against therapy. I think that it's an important part of healing. For a lot of people it's difficult to voice out their thoughts, emotions and stories. Therapy allows us to feel comfortable with the idea of HAVING A VOICE. At least that's the way I see it. <br /><br />I come across lots of people who have judgments against THERAPY. I don't! Some of my closest friends are psychologists and psycho-therapists. I see how difficult their jobs are and how much they contribute to the healing of others. <br /><br />We like to think ourselves as complementary to therapy. We basically help in the search for perspective by giving access to new thoughts and actions. We also give people the opportunity to live experiences they wouldn't usually live -- and look deeper into themselves. We're more about self-discovery and self-emergence. We don't focus on healing but we are more than aware that deep healing occurs. <br /><br />Dreaming is our thing and I know we do it well!!! LOL<br /><br />Great question by the way.<br />LISALisa F. Tardiffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11417343793276016602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6912321843321447366.post-15349188780271419132011-07-21T16:59:13.776-04:002011-07-21T16:59:13.776-04:00Hi Lisa,
I have been eager to hear your story fro...Hi Lisa, <br />I have been eager to hear your story from the workshop.<br />Al and I wanted to attend this workshop but it fell at the same time as my sons birthday...so you would have had another couple...I love the idea of crossing the river.<br />What your blog brought up for me, infact, is something i have been thinking on today. I love the timing of your blogs! <br />I know for my husband to achieve one of his dreams then we will more than likely have to spend time away from each other. When he has worked away in the past I missed his connection, and the emotional support. I can function well by myself, i proved that to myself when he worked away for three months in Pakistan after our third son waS BORN...I GUESS I ASSOCIATE WORKING AWAY WITH DREAD. and as if by magic the caps came on!<br />I dont think it is something i need to work on it is something i know and do not like. I do not want to put out any blocks for my husband though cos i want him to achieve his dreams. Selfishly, this is prob more about me raising the children without his help. There are some days i need his support with the children. We are a team.<br />I would love to read a blog about teaching children/teenagers about setting boundaries (mine are still young but they still need to learn how to set their own boundaries. I want to be able to guide them appropriately.)<br /> I think we do teach our boundaries but am open for guidance regarding the teenage aspect, my son acts like a teenager even though he is only 11, 12 in Sep. In Sept he attends high school. He is a good boy, he cares, shares and is a real comedian, i love him to bits and want to help him as much as i can.Lilihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07624557781876903457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6912321843321447366.post-26818575834312674172011-07-21T09:06:45.994-04:002011-07-21T09:06:45.994-04:00Thank for sharing Lisa. Sounded like alot of FUN! ...Thank for sharing Lisa. Sounded like alot of FUN! and LEARNING!<br />I was curious because you mention therapy in your blog, do you consider what you do I form of therapy?<br />And how do you decide the workshop theme- the Northern Star- and what does that them entail in term of preparation?<br />sincerely, <br />NathalieWampumBlueRavenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05953087004284515987noreply@blogger.com