I’ve always loved history. Not so much the names of people or the dates
of events but the vibe or energy I can pick up from old stories. As a hypersensitive (don’t like the word
“empath” – sorry) I’ve always picked up “impressions” off of objects,
buildings, and even people or events.
For most of my childhood I believed these “feelings;” which often took
the form of elaborate stories were simply fantasies or imagination.
When I was a child my parents would take my
brother, my sister and I to the Shriners Circus every year. The first year was held in tents in the back
of a mall. Then their success grew and
they changed the venue. In the huge arena they would cater to 10 times the
crowd. I remember telling my parents at
the time, how the Circus felt different year after year despite the fact that
it was always the same people and the same acts (give or take).
It was only after my first music concert at
the age of 16 years old that I noted in a personal journal: “The crowd and venue
influences the vibe around an actual event.” It’s not surprising that
performers get addicted to the “feeling” they receive from performing. Almost a decade later, I was on stage as a
keynote lecturer and taking in the “energy” I was getting from my own
audience. I understood in that moment
that we create “a vibe” and that it’s a recipe made of several ingredients:
·
A vision (mix of fantasy,
imagination and intention)
·
Enthusiasm (mix of common
interest, curiosity and feeling called)
·
Support (mix of encouragement,
excitement, and connection)
·
Collectivity (different people
coming together to celebrate)
Imagine your life story as some kind of
“performance.” You are the main
character in a 40 / 60 / 90 year old play.
The scenes change every now again and so do the characters; but in most
part your story elaborates on one main theme and shows how you have grown
through it all. Of course, you are also
a second or minor character in other people’s lives / plays. By exploring their story you can come to understand
the impact you have on their lives and come to even better develop yourself as
your main character.
See how that works?
This idea of growing through exploring the plays /or
lives of others
is called living according to a “myth.”
In our Circles we call it: “Living
according to a Dream.”
What’s amazing through history is that the
human myth (so to speak) although sometimes more colourful; more fantastic, and
more elaborate during certain eras has always remained basically the same.
Humans love “superheroes.”
Looking back at some of the stories in
antiquity we see that humans loved the idea of gods and goddesses: Individuals from other Worlds who were deeply
or casually interested in humanity.
These beings always seemed to exhibit human traits (jealousy, regret,
guilt, shame, desire, lust etc…); but acted on them with more courage, power,
and consciousness. It was almost as if
the makers of “myth” were seeking out attitudes, behaviours, and abilities;
which were difficult for most men. Through myths, humans had access to examples
bigger than life or mentors; which could be accessed through dreams and
visions. It gave birth to the potential
of extraordinary growth.
A young student of mine recently said that
he wanted to know if his dream of becoming a Superhero was an illusion or a
reality. When I brought up the question amongst
some of my peers I was surprised with some of the responses.
Quite a few people chuckled and said: “I
hope you were honest with him and told him that Peter Parker was a scientist
(reality) who dreamed up Spiderman (illusion) under a microscope.”
A few others took a moment to think about
it and almost insulted replied: “Are we saying that there are no Superheroes in
our lives? Nobody who accomplishes incredible
feats; thinks of the community first; and lives a life of incredible
integrity…”
Where some people believe that
“superheroes” are the fantasies of little boys and little girls; others believe
they are a reality missing in today’s ever growing over population. From my perspective we demand heroism from
our religious and government leaders; and when we come face-to-face with their
humanity we are often disappointed. I
don’t believe we’ve stepped away from “myth” we are just expressing it
differently.
As I was walking the dogs with GP this
morning I made the comment that I had to find a way to win the “BEETLE
WAR”. For a split second I literally
wrote a whole script about a beetle villain and it’s heroic super
predator… Creating “myth” came quite naturally.
GP giggled at my words and simply asked:
“Have I missed something?”
This summer has been deadly for many trees
and plants in our gardens and yards. It
seems like every day I hear about a new insect attacking the vegetation in our
neighbourhood. At the vet this year, we
were told to protect our dogs from a dozen different types of bugs. Many of them I’ve never seen before.
How many movies have we watched in the last
5 years; which describes some kind of alien invasion in the form of giant
insects? I couldn’t help but giggle at
my reality this summer because it certainly mimicked a “myth” we’ve created
through our movies.
Myth certainly expressed itself differently
20,000 years ago, 8,000 years ago, 2,000 years ago in comparison to now… Yet, what repeats through those years is this
human need to connect to some “higher being.”
Just yesterday I was looking through my Facebook feed and came across a
story about extra-terrestrials. The
video showed these flashing lights in the sky over Australia. Nobody commented on the authenticity of the
video but everyone mentioned having the belief that “alien life exists and that
it is closer to us than we may imagine.”
I know quite a few people who believe in
“alien life”. I’ve been told about books,
podcasts, blogs and radio shows; which can prove to me that extra-terrestrials
exist; and that our governmental officials have been meeting with them for
decades and keeping them secret from the public. My grandmother was a great UFO fan and she
often referred to stories (Native American legends) she was told by her mother
and grandmother; which she believed validated her beliefs. Whether we speak of the Gods and Goddesses of
Greece and Egypt or the Extra-Terrestrials of modern times these characters
support the basic nature of man; which is to strive towards mythical creatures.
Whether we believe in the Son of God, the
Second Coming, or the Pagan Gods and Goddesses, we are looking towards
characters; which can inspire us, teach us, love us, and help us grow into
stronger and better people. Today, more
and more young people are believing in
Video Game characters: Prophets, Mages,
Shamans and Sorcerers. Even those individuals who believe in Satan, Demons and
all of the creatures of the undergrounds are looking to find pieces of
themselves; answers to their deepest questions; and ways to journey into what
best calls to them. All humans seem to
need “myth.”
I guess the ultimate question is: “Are we
creating “myth” (fantasy and imagination) or does it exist as a reality.”
I think both are possible and “real”. Like my story about the Beetle – both the
myth and the reality came together. The
idea is not to stay attached to the form.
P.S.
I’ll be back with another blog – on kind of the same topic but relating
to children and dreaming. For today,
this is what wanted to get written…..
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