For most people dreaming is simply about
“living or witnessing vivid and emotional stories while they sleep.” If they are lucky some of these dreamers have
“lucid experiences while they dream and can report having a life in some other
dimension or reality.” It’s rare to meet
the kind of Dreamer who has a strong understanding that what he or she dreams
is not only a mental or symbolic expression of their daily concerns or
curiosities; but is also a powerful tool.
When I introduce myself as a “traditional Dreamer”
I’m not using a “title;” which I eventually hope my students will exploit. No. I’m using as little words as possible to
speak of myself, of my journey, and of the story or dream that I’ve been living
for the last 53 years. Every elder or
Dreamer that has dreamt like I dream will use a word that best describes them
and their journey and story / or dream.
In the 1800’s people used the word “Dream Walker” to describe the kind
of dreaming that I often refer to as “Indigenous Dreaming” today.
In general people don’t give too much
thought to dreaming. It’s a natural
phenomenon; which occurs when we are sleeping and in most cases, dreams have
little connection to what we are living on a daily basis. The individuals who search for people like me
are usually having a difficult time wrapping their minds around what we call
“dream phenomenon.”
Here are some examples:
1.
After loosing a loved one a
good number of people will dream of the decease. Often these dreams are lucid, intensely
emotional and leave a lasting impression.
A good number of individuals will search for understanding after
receiving such dreams.
2.
I often receive emails from
people who are troubled by dreams; which have manifested in the following
week. Whether dreams are warning us of
death, accidents or illness; or predicting a trip, a new relationship or the
sale of a house – having dream realities become material can often be freaky
and scary. It certainly rattles our
linear mind …
3.
We are taught that dreaming is
a symbolic language; which speaks of subconscious issues or lost memories. It surprises most people when they touch
aspects of the dreaming; which is unrelated to their “ego”. For example I often meet people who have
dreamt of seismic tragedies in other countries like a flood, an earthquake, a
tornado or volcano. Some of these dreams
were so real that these dreamers felt like they were one of the victims.
Once you touch
dreaming phenomenon, dreaming becomes limitless.
Scientists or
inventors like Alexander G. Bell and Benjamin Franklin used dreaming to dive
into an ocean of creativity; which seemed untouchable from their waking
perspective. They didn’t need or take hallucinogens to reach this level of
dreaming. Small exercises and a lot of
patience helped them tap into areas of the “cell and brain;” which allowed them
to pick up on dream realities asking to be manifested. I love it when artists approach me with a
vision to explore “dreaming” in such a way as to enhance their potential of
creativity. Musicians, painters or
writers often approach dreaming for inspiration. Some scientists believe that
it is impossible to dream of people, places or things that you have never seen
before. Through my personal experience
it couldn’t be further from the truth since dreaming has given me access
countless times to the unknown or the World of Mystery.
Close to a
decade ago, I received a call from a young woman who lost her sister in a car
accident. Not only was this woman
grieving; but she was also struggling with unresolved issues with her
sister. She begged for me to teach her
how to reach the World of the Dead. She
wanted to sit down with her sister and make peace. She didn’t trust her sleeping dreams where
her sister would appear and tell her “all was good.” She wanted a lucid voice in the dreaming and
she wanted the kind of experience that she couldn’t refute. She had lots of expectations and wasn’t ready
to give them up…
I figured that
with time and patience I could bring her exactly to where she needed to be. Dreaming is a tool but it’s also a skill. It’s not easy to teach people who are
brainwashed by the fast pace of today’s life experience to slow down.
“If you want to
be pro-active in your dreams” I often say, “you need to be able to capture
details and direct your movements. In
order to accomplish this task you have to develop the ability to focus, to
observe, and to archive what I call: The obvious details.”
It took us
almost two years to finally reach our goal.
During this time, she dreamt of her sister often but was never able to
participate in the dreaming scene or dialogue.
She wasn’t interested in “symbolic interpretation.”
Like she often
repeated: “I am very much aware that my subconscious is struggling with some
childhood issues and personal worries and fears.”
Many of her dreams
validated the fact that she was working through personal inner conflicts. Even if these dreams frustrated her, they were
still crucial to the process. They were
helping her get closer and closer to that dream experience / dream phenomenon
that she so desperately needed to move on.
I think the “end
dream” literally took her by surprise.
She had given up on the idea that it would ever happen and since she was
feeling less and less desperate over time she was no longer attached to the
outcome. I remember actually dreaming
the dream along with her. It was almost
as if her sister was allowing me to “peek in” because I had guided her through
the whole process and brought her to her.
Or maybe it was yet another gift for a Dreamer (her sister) -“evidence”
that dreaming is a skill we can develop over time and it’s so much more than we
can ever imagine.
I feel blessed
to be in the life of so many Dreamers and to have the privilege to share their
story of awakening. For some Dreamers,
dreaming brings healing to deep wounds and issues or illness. For others it becomes
a life long exploration and study. Dreaming
can teach us incredible life lessons and open our minds, our hearts and our
soul to teachings beyond our reach. For other Dreamers, the phenomenon is a
validation that they aren’t crazy, and that there’s a whole Universe out there
waiting to be explored. Everyone comes
out of the experience with a unique perspective; which directs us to make great
changes and choices in our life.
If you are an
avid reader of my blog entries you know that I met my teacher through a dream;
which lead us to later meet in person.
It is not easy to meet a “traditional teacher”. They don’t usually advertise in newspaper or
magazines. I chuckled tonight when I was
told that my event page on my web page wasn’t very informative. I’m often criticized for not having a book or
for not being easily accessible.
Most times I
reply: “If you are looking for me then, I am waiting for you….”
Teachings, workshops, classes, forums and dream experiences are all available; but you have to dream and step into the dreaming for it to materialize. I'm always looking forward to meeting new Dreamers and working through their unique stories along with them. Sometimes all it takes is a question, a comment, a story or a dream!
Dream of ME tonight and I'll no doubt dream of YOU!
Comments
It seemed to me that originally we met through our blogs, and then eventually in 'real life'. But I remember the moment much later when i suddenly recognized you as someone who'd been in my dreams for many years previously in different forms!! I didn't know I'd already met the 'Traditional Teacher' i was looking for ;-) It is really an incredible journey of discovery!